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Triplet Surprises

There is a wealth of information out there about triplets and triplet pregnancies. There are a few more things that have surprised me along the way.

  • Yes, you do get very large (to your knees when you are sitting). My favorite story was when I was 35 weeks pregnant with my triplet daughters - I was getting out of the car for a doctor's appointment and the security guard's jaw dropped as she blurted out "Oh My God!". Yes - it was official I was "Oh My God" big.
  • One of the best things about being pregnant with triplets is telling people (see triplet maternity shirt). It's a great conversation starter (or conversation killer if you want to get an insistent telemarketer off the phone).
  • You get to experience the kindness of perfect strangers on a daily basis. People always hold the door open and offer to help you in any way that they can.
  • Every where you go strangers will talk to you. When they're infants, expect to spend at least an extra half hour when you go out just to answer people's questions. Most people ask "Were you on fertility drugs?" Be prepared for the whole gamut of questions. Even though the questions tend to be very personal, it's just natural curiosity getting the best of them.
  • As babies, you will have to prop bottles at one time or another. Very few triplet moms I know had help around the clock. It's obviously not the preferred method to feed a baby, but it's a necessity at times.
  • As my triplets have gotten older (they're now toddlers), the most frequent comment I hear is "You have your hands full!". Followed by a close second to, "Are they all yours?" However, the creativity prize goes to an older man we (myself, husband and kids) met at a restaurant "So - what are you - a good Catholic or a sexy Protestant?" What do you say to that?
  • Network with other triplet moms through The Triplet Connection and other groups (see links). They know without you saying a word.


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